Category: LGBTQ+

  • Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Lesbian couple attacked on London bus after refusing to kiss for men

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Esther McVey: Parents should have power to stop 15-year-olds learning gays exist  

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Restaurant refuses lesbian couple due to “unhealthy relationship”

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Body of a black transgender woman pulled from Dallas lake

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    DA: gay couples shouldn’t get domestic violence protection

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Alabama mayor suggests “killing out” gay people

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Bullied trans teen leaves heartbreaking note after dying by suicide

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Village disowns Dutee Chand, India’s first openly gay athlete

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Police arrest suspect carrying knife near Jerusalem Pride parade

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    LGBT tour operator faces death threats over Ethiopia trip

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Discrimination at work faced by half of all LGBT employees

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    Two in three older LGBT people face discrimination in healthcare

    Why can’t we have a straight Pride month?

    These headlines are all from the last few days. I could treble the number by including anti-LGBT columns from supposedly respectable publications.

    Instead I’ll quote Shawn Olson, former Minneapolis State Senate candidate:

    Gay Pride was not born of a need to celebrate being gay, but our right to exist without persecution. So instead of wondering why there isn’t a straight Pride movement, be thankful you don’t need one.

     

     

  • “Yes, we’ll be safe. But at what cost?”

    This is a powerful piece by Stella Duffy in response to today’s horrific photos of two lesbian women beaten up on a London bus.

    THIS is what it’s like. Every fucking day that I am not behind the closed front door of my home. THIS is what it’s like to walk down the street with my wife and know that neither she nor I feel at ease holding each others’ hands let alone making any stronger gesture of love. THIS is what it’s like being queer and has been all of my adult life, most of my teenage life from the time I knew I was ‘different’ and was aware why I felt that way. Not knowing if we’re safe, not knowing what it might feel like to feel safe with my loved one.

  • The reason is there is no reason

    I politely declined to go on a radio programme last night. The topic was YouTube’s selective enforcement of its anti-harassment and hate speech rules, with a look at the wider issue of online abuse, but the other contributor would be an antagonist who’d argue that the real victims of online abuse are the people who do the abusing.

    I’m not going to help legitimise that.

    We often assume that someone on the other side of a debate is just like us: if it turns out that our facts are wrong, we change our views. It’s a nice idea that’s been ruthlessly exploited by people who aren’t interested in facts. Demolish argument #1 and they’ll calmly switch to argument #2, even if it completely contradicts the previous argument. The goal is not to be right. The goal is to win, to tire you out or goad you until you snap.

    As I’ve written before, what these people do is not a debate; it’s a performance. And you can see a great example of it in Donald Trump’s justifications for his ban on trans people serving in the military.

    You may recall that when Trump originally promised to ban trans people, the reason was because the presence of trans people “erodes military readiness and unit cohesion”. It was a “military decision”.

    A few months later, that was dropped after the military said “no, it wasn’t”. Suddenly it wasn’t a military decision. It was a financial one. The government didn’t want to pay the cost of trans people’s surgeries.

    That one was debunked too. Now, he’s saying it’s because trans people “take massive amounts of drugs”.

    Whether they’re true or not (they’re not, of course) doesn’t matter. He might as well tell us that the ban is because a mysterious hooded figure came to him in a dream, or that somebody told him that trans people are fatal to mice. The reason for the trans ban is that Trump wants a trans ban.

    We’re confusing the beginning and the end. Trump didn’t decide to implement a trans ban because of X, Y and Z. He decided to implement a trans ban because he decided to implement a trans ban. X, Y and Z are merely flags of convenience; if they don’t fly, he’ll try A, B and C.

    It’s cruel, of course, as are the other anti-trans (and anti-women) activities of the administration. They’re not based on evidence, but on a desire to hurt specific groups of people.

    The cruelty isn’t an accident. The cruelty is the point.

    The same process was visible with Betsy DeVos, the US education secretary. DeVos says that her office “is committed to ensuring all students have access to their education free from discrimination,” and the way to do this is to discriminate against trans students. When asked if she was aware of the negative effects discrimination has on trans students, she said “I do know that. I But I will say again that [my office] is committed to ensuring all students have access to their education free from discrimination.”

    Of course it doesn’t make sense. It’s not supposed to. DeVos doesn’t care about evidence because the decision is not based on evidence. She wants to discriminate against trans students because she wants to discriminate against trans students.

    The cruelty isn’t an accident. The cruelty is the point.

    The same thing happens with the various anti-trans groups that have sprung up from nowhere to agitate against the rights and dignity of trans people, claiming to respect “genuine” trans people while fomenting hatred against them. Their ground is constantly shifting: as each specious argument is shown to be false, a new one takes its place.

    Like Trump, the reason they hate trans people isn’t because X, or Y, or Z, so their views won’t change if you discredit X, or Y, or Z. They hate trans people because they hate trans people.

    The cruelty isn’t an accident. The cruelty is the point.

  • The voices in our heads

    Image by Jhonis Martins, Pexels.com

    I originally posted a version of this to a trans forum in response to someone who’s having a really hard time with body image, with feeling that they look ridiculous, with being trans in a world that isn’t always a nice place for trans people. I thought it was worth posting a version of it here.

    I think most of us have a voice inside us that amplifies everything negative we’ve ever heard, that makes us think the worst about ourselves. The world can do a good job of kicking away at our confidence if we let it.

    Making us think we look ridiculous is part of that. We buy into it. But there’s nothing ridiculous about being yourself, about having a bit of fun with things. Maybe we don’t look quite like we’d like to, but nobody else does either. My very beautiful cisgender friends aren’t happy with their bodies or appearance either.

    I’m finding counselling helps me get a handle on this. It’s helping me to silence the negative voice, to notice when I’m imagining the worst possible outcome or coming to the worst possible conclusions: I’m disgusting, I’m fat, everybody hates me, I’m a failure as a human being, if I go out I’ll be yelled at, laughed at or killed. All that good stuff.

    It’s helping me to understand that the little voice is usually wrong, that I can choose not to listen to it, that I can choose to think and act positively.

    You don’t necessarily need to go to counselling to do any of those things. It’s just a matter of recognising patterns, about realising that all too often we choose to amplify the voices that make us sad while ignoring the ones that don’t.

    Here’s an example. When my women friends, who I really care about and whose opinions really matter to me, pay me compliments I immediately discount them. But if some wanker on a bus gives me a dirty look I will conclude that I look ridiculous, I’m a pathetic failure and I might as well kill myself.

    I don’t necessarily realise I’m doing it, but I’m making a choice. In that example I’m choosing to think the worst. I’m choosing to see the world as negatively as possible. I’m choosing to reject anything positive and accept everything negative.

    Being aware of that is half the battle.

    Being aware of your thought patterns doesn’t mean there aren’t any wankers in the world. But it does help you realise that it’s up to you whether you make room for their bullshit in your head. It’s your choice whether to base your world view, your sense of self, on somebody you don’t know and whose opinion is of no consequence at all.

    It takes time and effort to get there, and there will still be bad days. But when you become aware of the patterns, you have many, many more good days. You realise that your negative voice will say pretty much anything to try and hurt you. You realise that it’s full of shit.

    You’re a better person than the voice in your head says you are.

    The world is a better place than you tell yourself it is.

    Here’s an example from this week. I stood up on a stage with a guitar and played some songs to a room full of strangers. The voice in my head told me that I was fat, that I was old, that I didn’t pass, that I was a freak, that I was a mess, that my songs are crap, that if I got up on that stage I’d be a laughing stock.

    And I ignored it, and I had fun, and I was awesome.

    You are too. Don’t let that voice tell you otherwise.

  • False Pride

    The other day, I told the most powerful man in the world to take a flying fuck at the moon. America’s criminal-in-chief had the gall to post this on Twitter:

    As we celebrate LGBT Pride Month and recognize the outstanding contributions LGBT people have made to our great Nation, let us also stand in solidarity with the many LGBT people who live in dozens of countries worldwide that punish, imprison, or even execute individuals on the basis of their sexual orientation. My Administration has launched a global campaign to decriminalize homosexuality and invite all nations to join us in this effort!

    This is the same administration that imprisons immigrants on the basis of their sexual orientation and is introducing legislation that would make it legal for healthcare providers and emergency services to let LGBT+ people die. Like very many LGBT+ people, I felt like sharing my disgust.

    Trump’s tweet is an example of the utter hypocrisy that happens during Pride Month, which is when most of the US Pride parades take place. Brands plaster the rainbow over everything: look at us! We’re down with the LGBT!

    In fairness, some brands appear to mean it. Brands such as Nike and Levis have been LGBT-friendly since long before Pride Month became part of the marketing calendar. IKEA has long been among the most progressive and inclusive employers.  Others, such as Wagamama, use it to announce decent things such as the introduction of gender-neutral toilets.

    It’s great to see public support for LGBT+ people: it wasn’t that long ago homosexuality was “the love that dare not speak its name,” after all. Collectively, the support during Pride Month is good to see and a very visible reminder to the bigots that they’re on the wrong side of history.

    But that doesn’t mean there isn’t some pride-washing going on, companies slapping on a bit of rainbow paint in acts of corporate hypocrisy.

    Tech companies are a good example of that. Facebook likes a bit of Pride, and by all accounts it’s pretty good to its LGBT employees. But it’s also where some of the most vicious anti-LGBT+ abuse takes place, the home of rabidly anti-LGBT+ individuals and groups. Its love of low taxation also means it has a history of donating to some of the most anti-LGBT+ politicians in America, effectively helping to fund hatred. And as for Twitter…

    Other brands are bad too. Paddy Power will once again do its thing for Pride this year, but those of us with longer memories haven’t forgotten its 2012 advert that encouraged viewers to laugh at trans women. Some of the biggest brands with rainbows on their products sponsored the Winter Olympics in Sochi a few years ago, turning a blind eye to the introduction of an anti-gay “propaganda” law. If you use the Wi-Fi in McDonalds, you’ll see its family filter comes from that haven for transphobic bigots, Mumsnet. My Facebook timeline is currently full of Pride-branded merchandise that doesn’t donate a penny to any LGBT+ organisations, often using designs ripped off from LGBT+ artists.

    Here’s a fascinating fact. Last year, the pharmaceutical company Gilead sponsored New York Pride and donated to LGBT+ charities. Gilead makes Truvada, a pill that can almost eliminate the risk of contracting HIV. Gilead can clearly afford to throw a few coins at the gays: if you don’t have insurance, Truvada is $2,110.99 per month.

    It’s not wicked if we wrap it in a rainbow

    It’s interesting to look at Pride-related advertising through a critical lens: if the adverts include any LGBT+ people at all, and very many of them don’t, who do you see? How are they portrayed? The glossy ads I see are very white and stick to a very narrow range of portrayals. Good luck spotting a non-passing trans woman, a bull dyke or a gay guy who doesn’t look like Michelangelo’s David.

    They are also incredibly, often hilariously, safe. “Love is love”, the copy says, but the corporate approval doesn’t seem to extend to actually showing that love. Much safer to show a rainbow-striped hamburger with two chaste models than two LGBT+ people hugging, let alone kissing.

    That narrowness is symptomatic of a wider issue. When you support Pride, what are you celebrating? Who are you supporting?

    I’ve mentioned before that sometimes “I supported gay marriage” is the new “some of my friends are black”, a fig leaf that hides intolerance of or even bigotry towards anybody who isn’t “one of the good ones” such as loudly feminine men, genderqueer and non-binary people, trans women and men and anyone with (to the straights) awkward or unpalatable opinions. Some of the marketing around Pride Month feels the same.

    Pride started with a riot

    Marketing isn’t brilliant at history, so it’s worth remembering what Pride Month actually is. It’s a commemoration of the Stonewall Riots of June 1969, when a bunch of LGBT+ people got pissed off with the police. At the time, it was illegal for women to wear fewer than three pieces of feminine clothing or for men to dress as women. The police would regularly raid places such as the Stonewall Inn and force the patrons to “verify their sex”, arresting anyone who didn’t stick to gender norms and sexually assaulting some of them.

    Wikipedia describes what happened on 28 June 1969:

    Those dressed as women that night refused to go with the officers. Men in line began to refuse to produce their identification. The police decided to take everyone present to the police station, after separating those cross-dressing in a room in the back of the bar.

    …A scuffle broke out when a woman in handcuffs was escorted from the door of the bar to the waiting police wagon several times. She escaped repeatedly and fought with four of the police, swearing and shouting, for about ten minutes. Described as “a typical New York butch” and “a dyke–stone butch”, she had been hit on the head by an officer with a baton for, as one witness claimed, complaining that her handcuffs were too tight. Bystanders recalled that the woman, whose identity remains unknown (Stormé DeLarverie has been identified by some, including herself, as the woman, but accounts vary), sparked the crowd to fight when she looked at bystanders and shouted, “Why don’t you guys do something?” After an officer picked her up and heaved her into the back of the wagon, the crowd became a mob and went “berserk”: “It was at that moment that the scene became explosive.”

    That’s what the rainbows are commemorating: a bunch of LGBT+ people losing their shit.

    Pride is a celebration. But it’s a celebration that rages and mourns. It rages against a society that others, fears and hates us and it mourns the many people who died from a big disease with a little name. It rages against those who want us to hate ourselves and to hurt ourselves, and it mourns the lives lost to that hatred. It rages against the pundits and the priests and the politicians who want to deny us our humanity, and it mourns the many LGBT+ children who never got to become LGBT+ adults.

    Put that on your billboard.

  • “We know for a fact that the facts are not facts”

    I saw this on Reddit just after I wrote this post.

    You may recall the recent furore in the Scottish press over Glasgow Live’s policies for trans people in public spaces such as gyms and swimming pools. The policy – we’ll do what the law says we should do – led to the publication of yet more anti-trans columns and a flood of online abuse against trans people.

    One of the inconvenient facts about the policy, which activists claimed would lead to the abuse of women, is that it had been in place for several years with no problems whatsoever.

    That can’t be true! said the bigots. We demand evidence!

    The evidence is in. Since the policies were enacted, how many complaints have there been about trans people?

    None.

    The response? Inevitably: “fake news!”

    Representatives from the group Forwomen.scot said they were “astonished” by the statistics, adding: “We know for a fact there have been several complaints about the policy.”

    Susan Sinclair, who tweets as Scottish Women, added: “The best way to measure whether or not women are concerned about women only spaces and services being inclusive isn’t to go by the number of complaints they’ve received.”

    The fact that there have not been any complaints is not a fact. And anyway, even if facts really were facts you can’t measure the number of complaints by counting the number of complaints. Why do you hate women?

    They do this over more serious issues too, such as inclusivity in rape crisis centres. When rape crisis charities tell them that they have been trans-inclusive for years without incident, and that trans women are vulnerable women, they get the same response: your facts are not facts because they are not the facts I believe the facts should be. Why do you hate women?

    These are the voices columnists write approvingly about in our newspapers, that broadcast media expects trans people to “debate”, that our MSPs invite to Holyrood to discuss whether we should have human rights.

    Update: Apologies. It turns out there was one complaint. But it wasn’t about a trans woman. It was about a cisgender woman verbally abusing a trans woman.

  • There are no gays in Malta

    This is what “reasonable debate” about trans people looks like.

    Update: that’s not even the maddest thing these yahoos and their supporters have claimed today. Apparently it’s impossible to raise estrogen levels to typical female levels artificially, which is going to be a surprise for the endocrinology profession and the many cisgender women on hormone replacement therapy. Oh, and they’re also arguing that testosterone is not made by the testicles. No, apparently it’s made by the penis, which is a magical hormone tube.

    Meanwhile in the reality-based community, here’s a trans woman who was denied healthcare because the doctor hated trans people.

  • Not mad. Not bad. Just normal.

    There isn’t a single day when I don’t see somebody claiming that trans people are mentally ill and/or degenerates. Here’s some geniuses from this morning.

    A huge problem is that public awareness of trans people – and of what the medical consensus is about trans people – is incredibly out of date.

    For a long time, normal human variety and behaviour has been pathologised – that is, labelled as a medical problem when it isn’t.

    A good example of that is in the pathologisation of women. In the Victorian era, women who rebelled against domesticity could be labelled insane and thrown into asylums. Doctors considered women to suffer from an invented condition called “hysteria”, a condition that should be cured by finding a husband. In the 1950s, women were routinely sedated to deal with their unhappiness. In the 1960s and 1970s, feminism was considered by many to be a medical problem.

    And that’s before we get to the queer folk. In the US, homosexuality was classified as a medical condition until 1973. It isn’t, of course, but the supposed science was based on gender beliefs about the supposedly essential qualities of men and women. To put it simply, if you weren’t a manly straight man or a girly straight girl there was clearly some sort of medical problem.

    The treatment was harsh. Some people were given electro-shock therapy, a practice that continues in China to this day, or aversion therapy, or other supposed cures that caused great damage.

    The Bible of psychiatric conditions for US doctors is the Diagnostic And Statistical Manual, or DSM for short. It’s a reference manual produced by the American Psychiatric Association (APA) and its first two editions included homosexuality. The APA was very resistant to improved scientific knowledge because it contradicted its members’ beliefs that gay people had a “degenerative” condition.

    American psychiatry mostly ignored this growing body of sex research and, in the case of Kinsey, expressed extreme hostility to findings that contradicted their own theories.

    Some gay activists were complicit in this.

    …some mid-20th century homophile (gay) activist groups accepted psychiatry’s illness model as an alternative to societal condemnation of homosexuality’s “immorality” and were willing to work with professionals who sought to “treat” and “cure” homosexuality.

    It’s easy to condemn now, but “be nice to them, they’re mental” was a step forward from “throw rocks at them, they’re perverts”.

    Eventually, though, science won: fact beat faith, and homosexuality was no longer a medical condition in the DSM III onwards – although it remained a “sexual orientation disturbance” until 1987. Nevertheless, “APA’s 1973 diagnostic revision was the beginning of the end of organized medicine’s official participation in the social stigmatization of homosexuality. Similar shifts gradually took place in the international mental health community as well.”

    There was a wider context to this: the World Health Organisation’s International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems, ICD for short. In 1948, the WHO published version six of the ICD, ICD-6, which classified homosexuality as a “sexual deviation”.

    The ICD listed homosexuality as a mental disorder until 1992.

    Most people understand that gay people are perfectly normal, but until very recently the official medical literature said otherwise. And that legitimised hatred.

    As a result [of removing homosexuality from the DSM and ICD], cultural attitudes about homosexuality changed in the US and other countries as those who accepted scientific authority on such matters gradually came to accept the normalizing view. For if homosexuality was no longer considered an illness, and if one did not literally accept biblical prohibitions against it, and if gay people are able and prepared to function as productive citizens, then what is wrong with being gay? Additionally, if there is nothing wrong with being gay, what moral and legal principles should the larger society endorse in helping gay people openly live their lives?

    The result, in many countries, eventually led, among other things, to (1) the repeal of sodomy laws that criminalized homosexuality; (2) the enactment of laws protecting the human rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people in society and the workplace; (3) the ability of LGBT personnel to serve openly in the military; (4) marriage equality and civil unions in an ever growing number of countries; (5) the facilitation of gay parents’ adoption rights; (6) the easing of gay spouses’ rights of inheritance; and (7) an ever increasing number of religious denominations that would allow openly gay people to serve as clergy.

    Most importantly, in medicine, psychiatry, and other mental health professions, removing the diagnosis from the DSM led to an important shift from asking questions about “what causes homosexuality?” and “how can we treat it?” to focusing instead on the health and mental health needs of LGBT patient populations.

    Guess what? The DSM and ICD also pathologised trans people. The DSM detailed “gender identity disorder” until 2013, when DSM-5 reclassified it as “gender dysphoria” – not perfect, but better.

    The widely circulated belief in a made-up condition called Autogynephilia (short version: trans women are either narcissists or confused gay men; as ever, trans men aren’t given much thought) has been thoroughly debunked; being trans is not considered a mental illness in the DSM any more: the problem isn’t being trans, but the distress that comes from trying not to be.

    The same thing is happening with the ICD. As the WHO announced last year, “transsexualism” is being removed from ICD-11 – so the diagnosis I have, of “transsexualism male to female ICD10 F64”, will be consigned to the history books. The change was ratified this month by the Assembly of States of the WHO.

    As with the DSM, some concerns remain (not least whether US insurers will continue to pay for trans people’s transition-related healthcare).

    Here’s the Council of Europe Commissioner for Human Rights.

    While the removal of gender identity from the list of mental illnesses is a positive step, several concerns remain with the ICD11, and I call on WHO member states to continue improving the text to promote respect of human rights.

    Such concerns include the term “gender incongruence” retained in the ICD11 which may lead to interpretations suggesting abnormality, as well as the continued listing of gender incongruence in childhood in the ICD.

    I particularly regret that no progress was achieved in the ICD11 toward depathologisation of intersex people, and that terms such as “sex development disorders” continue to appear in the text. Language in the ICD Foundation suggesting sex “normalising” surgeries remains, which is of major concern.

    As with the DSM, it’s not perfect, but it’s better. As the Commissioner says:

    The pathologisation of trans people has served to justify serious violations of their human rights over the years, including attempts to “cure” them through conversion or reparative therapies; psychiatric evaluations, and sterilisation. In many countries, legal gender recognition is only possible upon medical diagnosis.

    Science, knowledge and understanding isn’t a fixed point. We now know that feminist women are not hysterical or insane. We know that you can’t pray the gay away or make people straight by electrocuting them. And we know that being trans isn’t an illness.

  • Do you believe us yet?

    This is where it leads. The “reasonable concerns”. The “just asking questions”. The denial of science. The platforming of extremists who seem like such nice people. The endless articles telling you trans people are dangerous.

    The Trump administration says it’s okay to let trans people die.

    Under the discrimination administration’s latest plans, healthcare can be denied to trans people.

    Insurers can refuse to pay for treatment.

    ERs can refuse to treat trans people.

    Paramedics can refuse to save our lives.

    Doctors can refuse to treat our children.

    Pharmacists can refuse to dispense hormones (something that’s already happening; in one case the pharmacist held onto the prescription so the trans person couldn’t get it filled anywhere else).

    It’s not just us, of course. The rest of the LGBT umbrella is being targeted too, as are women who’ve had abortions.

    We’re just the headline. People who aren’t trans read it, think “nothing to do with me” and move to the next article.

    This is how human rights are lost.

    This is how people die.

    I’m not exaggerating. I’ve blogged before about Tyra Hunter, left to drown in her own blood because emergency workers discovered she was trans.

    Here’s Sam Dylan Finch, who writes for Healthline.

    I remember when I lived in Michigan and a trans woman that I knew had to call 911, because a serious wound she had (from an unrelated medical condition) started hemorrhaging overnight.

    One of the EMTs went upstairs to her room, and when that EMT realized she was transgender, was visibly disgusted and left the room. Her mom overheard the EMT mocking her as he spoke to the other EMT, referring to her as an “it.”

    But the worst part of it was that, when it was decided that she needed to go to the hospital, they made her walk down the stairs herself without helping her. She was hemorrhaging blood from a leg wound. They stood impatiently and just watched her struggle.

    …A trans man named Robert Eads died of ovarian cancer after TWENTY SEPARATE DOCTORS refused to treat him. Lambda Legal reported that one of the doctors said the cancer diagnosis should make Eads “deal with the fact that he is not a real man.”

    I have known trans people who have been mocked while they were gravely ill in a hospital bed. I have known trans people who were outright turned away by doctors, or have had pharmacists refuse to fill prescriptions that were desperately needed.

    I need you to understand that when we say that these protections are a matter of life and death, we mean that LITERALLY. Transgender people have already died in utterly preventable and tragic ways because medical “professionals” turned their backs on us when we needed help.

    The scale of this is truly frightening.

    The administration wants homeless shelters to refuse entry to trans people. It plans a religious exemption law that enables adoption agencies to discriminate against LGBT families. It has banned trans people from the military. It puts trans refugees in solitary confinement. It has given government agencies and private businesses the right to discriminate against LGBT people provided it’s on religious grounds. Prison policy has been rewritten to place trans prisoners among people of their assigned birth gender, so trans women go to men’s prisons with predictable consequences.

    It is slowly but surely removing every single bit of legal protection for LGBT people.

    Finch:

    This is not about politics. This is about fundamental human rights. I want you to imagine getting into a serious car accident, and as you are literally dying before someone’s eyes, they are MOCKING you when you thought they had come to help you.

    I want you to imagine getting a cancer diagnosis, and going to doctor after doctor, TWENTY TIMES, to no avail. Imagine one callously remarking that maybe the cancer would teach you a lesson. Imagine the time is ticking, and no matter how much you plead, no one will help.

    I want you to imagine the humiliation of hemorrhaging blood, and being made to crawl down a staircase, while two ambulance workers that you called for help refer to you as “it” and look at you with disgust.

    Transequality.org has detailed the assault on LGBT rights and trans rights in particular since Trump took power. It’s a very long list.

    Not all of the proposed regulations will get onto the statute books. For example, the administration’s attempts to remove workplace protections for trans people will probably run afoul of other laws, case law, other regulations and various Executive Orders. But the sheer volume of it is shocking. Make no mistake: the administration has declared war on LGBT people and on women.

    I can’t imagine what it must be like to be trans in America right now, but I’m very scared that I’m going to feel something very similar here in a few years from now. The same rhetoric, the same “debates”, the same evangelicals and the same deep pockets are fuelling the same anti-trans sentiment here.

    The man behind the latest outrage, Roger Severino, is a former staffer and a firm friend of the evangelical Heritage Foundation.

    That’s the same Heritage Foundation that supports UK anti-trans activists, the same Heritage Foundation that the leading lights of the UK anti-trans movement fly to America to discuss strategy with.

    As our politics lurches ever rightwards, I’m genuinely frightened.

    Tthis isn’t about politics. This is about hate. This is about deliberate, cold cruelty, the deliberate othering of a whole group of human beings, a government effectively telling its populace that that group of people are not human.

    Diana Tourjée of Vice magazine:

    The Christian extremists running the US government will not stop until transgender Americans are dead and gone from public life

    …This is not politics. This is social extermination.

  • The cruelty is the point

    This week, SNP MP Joan McAlpine is hosting the Canadian anti-trans activist Meghan Murphy. Murphy, who has been given a lifetime ban from Twitter for the targeted harassment of trans people, says she is not transphobic; she just wants to “ensure the safety of women in places like female prisons, women’s refuges, and changing rooms”. [BBC]

    McAlpine says she’s an important voice in the gender recognition debate, even though the so-called debate is over a specific piece of legislation, the Gender Recognition Act, which has nothing to do with the issues McAlpine and her anti-trans pals claim to be concerned about.

    As I’ve written endlessly, the Gender Recognition Act is not about access to anything. It’s about paperwork, what the taxman calls us, whether we can get married in our correct gender and whether we get buried with dignity.

    Claiming it affects the definition of male and female or who can access what is untrue: both the UK and Scottish governments have said so flatly, but the howling mob refuses to listen.

    The legislation that covers “prisons, women’s refuges and changing rooms” is the Equality Act 2010. That act is not under review. It enables same-sex services to exclude trans people if such exclusion is proportionate and necessary; that is not under review either.

    McAlpine’s move is a deliberate act of trolling, a move to inject more anger and intolerance into an already overheated and one-sided “debate” that features far too much fiction and far too few facts and which has led to a marked increase in anti-trans sentiment and anti-trans hate crimes across the UK.

    Meanwhile in America, the Trump administration plans to introduce exactly the kind of change Murphy and McAlpine want by rolling back an Obama-era protection for trans people.

    The Trump administration announced plans Wednesday to let shelters and other recipients of federal housing money discriminate against transgender people by turning them away or placing them alongside others of their birth sex — refusing to let them share facilities with people of the same gender identity.

    Critics warn the proposal, which guts protections created during the Obama administration, could put transgender people at a higher risk for homelessness and abuse. The rule would allow shelters to reject transgender applicants entirely or require trans women to share bathing and sleeping facilities with men.

    Why does the US need this legislation? Has there been a rash of trans women attacking women since equality legislation was introduced? No. Have men been pretending to be women to attack women in shelters? No.

    Are trans kids more likely to be made homeless by family rejection than cisgender kids? Yes. Are trans adults more likely to be made homeless by being fired than cisgender adults? Yes. Does the proposed legislation mean more trans people will be attacked or left to fend for themselves on the streets? Yes.

    The people behind the legislation are well aware of this, and they don’t care. The cruelty is the point.

    Here’s writer Ashlee Marie Preston.

    At 19 I was fired from my job for being trans & became homeless. Women’s shelters rejected me because of my assigned gender at birth. Men’s shelters denied me for reading female. I ended up on the streets & encountered several near death experiences.

    This is why the Obama administration introduced protection for trans people. Homelessness is humiliating and dangerous. It’s even more so for trans people.

    Preston again:

    Trump knows what he’s doing.

    He does. This legislation is not the solution to a problem. Or rather, it’s not the solution to anything it purports to be a solution to. It’s designed to address something very different: the protection of transgender people and LGBT people generally.

    The Obama administration introduced legislation that made it much more difficult for religious zealots to discriminate against and endanger LGBT people. The Trump administration wants to roll that back, to make America hate again.

    This legislation isn’t cruel by accident. The cruelty is the point.