Author: Carrie

  • Not going for gold

    This is a bottle of Rimmel’s Oh My Gold nail polish, which I’m currently sporting. My five-year-old son likes it too, because nail polish is fun and fun is important. So when he asked for some on his own nails last night I was happy to oblige.

    This morning, he asked me to take it off again because he’s going to a sports camp where “the big boys will notice and say ‘what are you wearing nail polish for? That’s for girls!’ and pick on me.” So we got the nail polish remover and scrubbed every last bit off again.

    Five years old and he already knows the rules, and that he’ll be punished for breaking them.

    It makes me sad, as it did when my daughter was told aged four that history and dinosaurs are not for girls, and as it did a year later when she was told that girls couldn’t play with dragons because unicorns, not dragons, are for girls. We’re policing the gender of imaginary creatures now, it seems.

    These attitudes are learnt, of course. They’re passed down from other children, and from parents. So at an age when children should be expressing themselves more, experiencing more, exploring more, learning more, we’re already trying to put limits on all of those things.

    In a world of infinite colours, we’re telling them to choose just one.

  • When Rod Liddle is trending

    The heart always skips a beat when a famous person’s name appears in Twitter’s “trending” chart. It usually means they’ve died or been implicated in sex offences. So when Rod Liddle turned up the other night, my immediate reaction was to wonder whether he’d punched another pregnant woman in the stomach. Thankfully no: he was trying to defend apparently racist columns on TV. I’m surprised he didn’t claim his column had been hacked, like he did when his account was caught posting racist bilge on a football fan forum.

    Liddle is a terrible human being who writes terrible things on behalf of terrible people. And now he’s excreted another terrible book.

    Is it any good? Of course it isn’t. But at least it means Fintan O’Toole can review it.

    Never,” Rod Liddle writes in his jeremiad on the “betrayal” of Brexit, “have so many blameless people in this country been held in such contempt, or been subject to such vilification by an elite.” Really? Who wrote in 2014 of Britain as “a nation of broken families clamouring about their entitlements siring ill-educated and undisciplined kids unfamiliar with the concept of right and wrong”? Who described with relish “the hulking fat tattooed chavmonkey standing in the queue at Burger King”? Who characterised the British masses as inhabiting “a dumbed-down culture”, being in thrall to “the background fugue of idiocy, the moronic inferno, of celebrity fuckstories”, and spending their time “watching TV, masturbating to pornography on the internet, getting drunk”? That would be Liddle in his last book, whose title, Selfish Whining Monkeys, may just possibly have had a slight whiff of contempt and vilification.

    And that’s just the opening paragraph.

  • Probably not coming to a newspaper near you

    One of the things anti-trans writers like to go on about is the spectre of “detransition” and surgical regret: according to them, trans-related surgeries are acts of mutilation that many people will go on to regret.

    As ever, the facts tell a very different story. I’ve mentioned previously that the NHS in England reported a detransition rate somewhat different from the 80% claimed by the anti-trans mob: it was 0.47%.

    Here’s more data, this time covering surgical regret rates from a much bigger sample: 6,793 people over 43 years.

    Despite the large increase in treated transgender people, the people who underwent surgery but regretted their decision was 0.5%.

    By comparison, the regret rate for knee replacement surgery is 20%.

    As Christine Burns MBE, author of Trans Britain, points out:

    If any other branch of medicine had such good results the doctors involved would be given medals. It says volumes about the state of mind of anti-trans commentators that they keep on trying to pretend that an outstandingly successful medical treatment is vastly regretted.

  • Well behaved girls rarely make rock history

    This is my daughter on stage with The Red Bricks, one of the bands formed at this year’s Girls Rock Glasgow summer school. She’s the one with arms aloft. Sorry about the picture quality, it’s from a video.

    The concert is the culmination of the nine-day event during which girls aged 7 to 16 form bands, make merchandise and become even more kick-ass: in addition to the music content there are sessions on consent, on LGBT+ issues, on mindfulness and on body positivity.

    It’s really inspiring and heartwarming to see so many girls and young women doing the kind of thing girls and young women are so often discouraged from doing: being seen and heard, expressing themselves and making a huge noise. While not every attendee will go on to be a musician I think every one of them will be positively affected by the experience.

    Girls Rock doesn’t just run in Glasgow; it’s in cities throughout the UK and US. I can’t recommend it highly enough. Here’s a link to the Glasgow one so you can bookmark it for next year.

  • Schools protests to go nationwide

    Back in March, I wrote about the people protesting outside a Birmingham school over inclusive education and noted that while the protests were reported as Muslim, many of them were Christians. Also in March, I wrote that “US money is incoming and these protests will become more widespread.”

    Yesterday, INews reported that the protests are going nationwide thanks to the sudden appearance of “grass roots” activist groups.

    We’ve seen this pattern over the last couple of years with anti-trans groups, many of which have proven links with the US religious right. But trans people were only the testing ground for the evangelicals and their money.

    Now the focus is moving onto the wider LGBT+ community and women’s reproductive freedom. That was always the plan.

    A network of fringe activist groups such as Stop RSE, Parent Power, The Values Foundation and the School Gate Campaign have been set up over the past year, and campaigners are reportedly preparing to step up protests in September, encouraging parents to challenge the “radical sexualisation of kids” at schools.

    The School Gate Campaign, set up by an evangelical Christian mother, claims on its website that teaching children about gay people “hijacks and potentially perverts the course of natural child development.”

    Claiming that teaching about other people is “radical sexualisation” is of course a key claim of the religious right. Compare and contrast the bit from the article with the Family Research Council, the US’s horrific anti-LGBT+ evangelical group, who said this earlier this year:

    “Parents across the country pulled their children out of public schools on Monday for the “Sex Ed Sit Out”—a grassroots awakening of frustrated parents who are sick of the sexualization of children in their taxpayer-funded schools.”

    Same tactics. Same messaging. Same objective.

  • What’s being taught in our schools?

    Inviting organisations to talk about issues in schools can be a positive thing: for example, the Time For Inclusive Education campaign helps battle the bullying of LGBT+ kids. But what if the organisation has a track record of falsification and shock tactics?

    In an article about the tactics of anti-abortion groups, The Overtake notes that the Society for the Protection of the Unborn Child regularly gives presentations to Scots schoolchildren. 

    Statistics for England are “unavailable”, but in Scotland SPUC delivers talks in around 50 schools per year, often to meet a curriculum need.

    The SPUC declined to let the writer see any of the materials they use to meet this curriculum need.

    That’s deeply worrying. Here’s The Guardian, 11 years ago:

    Spuc, for example, tells teenagers there are links between abortion and breast cancer, although organisations such as Cancer Research UK and Breakthrough Breast Cancer have consistently presented research to prove there is no link. The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG) categorically states that abortion is not associated with an increase in breast-cancer risk.

    Here’s The Overtake, this week.

    a catalogue of educational leaflets are available from its website, many of which make for interesting reading. Its Abortion Pack includes a quotation from Dr Thomas Stuttaford which claims an “unusually high proportion” of women who had undergone an abortion later developed breast cancer. “Such women are up to four times more likely to develop breast cancer,” he says.

    Its pamphlet on Abortion and Women’s Health, dated April 2017 and authored by devout Catholic Dr Greg Pike, persists with the view that the relationship between abortion and elevated risk of breast cancer is “a controversial question”

    The facts, the science, hasn’t changed in the last decade.

    That’s just one example. The organisation also makes false claims about mental health and about how contraception works.

    Back to The Guardian:

    Many anti-abortion organisations refer to “post-abortion syndrome”, whose symptoms can include panic attacks, relationship problems, self-harm, drug and alcohol abuse, and depression. In fact, it is not a recognised medical condition. In August, the American Psychological Association concluded: “There is no credible evidence that single elective abortion of an unwanted pregnancy in and of itself causes mental-health problems for adult women.”

    …Spuc opts for both types of pictures. Having watched its presentation, labelled “standard abortion talk 2008”, I am not surprised to hear that in one class of 16- and 17-year-olds shown the presentation in July, half the students left distressed and some were physically sick.

    I can’t help wondering what the Venn diagram of “people who don’t want kids to learn that LGBT+ folks exist” and “people who are fine with forced birthers peddling verifiably false claims” would look like.

    Letting religious groups peddle demonstrably false information and make children vomit isn’t balance. It’s bullshit.

    The Guardian:

    Nobody I spoke to suggested that anti-abortion views should be shielded from young people. But, says Furedi, any discussion in school must be honest and provide accurate, impartial and up-to-date information. “Better still,” she says, “let’s move it out of the RE room and be much more upfront about the fact that one in three women will have an abortion at some time in their lives and that basically, if you’re fertile and sexually active, you are at risk of an unwanted pregnancy.”

    Children should learn about abortion. I’ve had several conversations with my 11-year-old daughter about it, conversations in which both sides of the argument have been explored. But it’s a health issue, not a religious issue, and should be taught as such.

     

  • Who’s paying for hate?

    One of the things that characterises the anti-trans movement in the UK is its use of crowdfunding, essentially an online begging bowl. But unlike many women’s organisations, the anti-trans groups don’t seem to put much effort into promoting their crowdfunders; also unlike many women’s groups, they attract suspiciously large donations.

    For example, the Transgender Trend group (effectively one individual, a sculptor who’s found a new career spreading anti-trans scaremongering) recently banked two anonymous donations totalling £35,000 within minutes of each other. Crowdfunding doesn’t usually work like that. Donations are usually £10 here, £20 there: even three figures is rare.

    In recent months, UK anti-trans groups and individuals have raised over £280,000 via crowdfunding. That money’s been raised to pay legal costs for cases that never went to trial, to raise money for “living expenses” and to sit in individuals’ bank accounts while they borrow from it to help their cash flow. A lot of it is apparently sitting around, unspent.

    When over a quarter of a million pounds has mysteriously appeared (and sometimes, mysteriously disappeared), it’s hard to avoid the conclusion that something rotten is going on here: tax evasion, dark money, possibly money laundering and in some cases what looks awfully like grifting.

    We know the US religious right has spent millions on funding supposed grassroots groups throughout Europe via dark money, and we know that the UK anti-trans movement has strong links with the US religious right.

    At least £279,729 has flowed into the coffers of UK anti-trans groups recently. That’s likely to be the tip of the iceberg: one group paid for a Metro wrap-around, market value £45K, before it started seriously fundraising; others accept donations via PayPal, which aren’t public (the UK Brexit party used this method to disguise its donors)).

    There’s an astonishing amount of money being moved around here.

    Imagine what a difference that kind of money could make to organisations such as, say, Rape Crisis Scotland instead of paying for bigots’ bedding.

    Where’s the money coming from?

  • No, acceptance of LGBT+ people isn’t going backwards

    The Guardian, and pretty much every other newspaper, reports today that acceptance of LGBT+ people is in decline. As The Guardian put it in a social media headline:

    Acceptance of gay sex in decline in UK for first time since AIDS crisis

    That’s not what the social attitudes survey, which the headline refers to, says at all. It reports that in the last three years, the percentage of the 3,000 people polled who say there’s “nothing wrong at all” with same-sex relationships has been 66%, 68% and 64%.

    As Matt Singh, pollster, election analyst and person who is Very Good With Numbers put it on Twitter:

    Silly, sensationalist, clickbait. The measured proportion saying same-sex relations “not wrong at all” fell two points from the last BSA, well within the MoE (not acknowledged until para 7) and might simply be because 2016-17 saw a relatively big increase

    …As recently as 2012, this was a minority view. It is now the view of two-thirds of GB adults. Please don’t make LGB communities feel their acceptance is under threat because you find statistical caveats inconvenient.

    In 1987, 64% of people said same-sex relationships were wrong. In 2017, that figure was down to 19%. Here’s the graph.

    It’s not very clear, I know: the pink line is the percentage saying pre-marital sex isn’t wrong; the green one, same-sex relationships. The little downwards bit at the end is the difference in polls in just one year in a poll of 3,000 people.

    You’ll see there was a much bigger dip in approval of pre-marital sex in 1996 and another a few years later; nevertheless, the trend continued upwards. Acceptance of same-sex relationships may well be slowing down, but it’s unlikely that it’s peaked and you can’t infer decline from a difference that’s well within your poll’s margin of error. And yet even The Guardian is going for the most click-baity interpretation of the numbers, something that’ll delight the bigots.

    Acceptance isn’t going backwards. But journalism appears to be.

  • We rise

    [Content note: homophobia and transphobia]

    Last year, a group of anti-trans bigots delayed the London Pride march. This year, the march was led by trans-inclusive women. I’m quite sure the above image, from Picadilly Circus during the march, caused a few bigots’ mouths to froth.

    In the same week, a YouGov poll investigated people’s attitudes towards LGBT+ issues and trans rights. A majority was supportive of both, including self-ID for trans people. It’s interesting to look at the detail. In every single demographic – conservatives, labour, remain, leave, north, south, young, old – there is clear support for making the gender recognition act more fair to trans people. Among women the split is 62% in favour against 18% against and 20% don’t knows. When you consider the incredibly one-sided scaremongering in the majority of the media, that’s amazing.

    Part of it is that people are generally good. And part of it is that the bigots have overplayed their hand. This week, the same clowns who disrupted last  year’s Pride protested outside a Stonewall conference. They had posters showing graphic post-surgical images in a chilling echo of the anti-abortion evangelicals who work closely with the UK anti-trans movement, and looked identical to their US fellow travellers and funeral picketers the Westboro Baptist Church, pictured below.

    I’ve chosen one of the least inflammatory images I could find of them. Even by religious bigots’ standards, they’re despicable.

    As Ellen from TransgenderNI wrote: “It’s a slipping of the mask. Anti-choice campaigners and anti-trans campaigners have the same tactics because they have enormous overlap in their communities.”

    Two of the people with placards recently travelled to the US, apparently paid by the evangelical anti-abortion, anti LGBT+ group The Heritage Foundation, where they abused trans politician Sarah McBride in her place of work. One of them apparently associates with far right holocaust deniers. When they’re not abusing trans people, their online supporters abuse women and groups who support trans people. After their London protest, they were asked to leave the National Theatre’s restaurant because of “their refusal to put placards out of sight that featured messages which upset other customers and contravened our visiting policy, and culminated in abusive behaviour towards our staff.” Nice people.

    Just like the “God hates fags” mouth-breathers, the anti-trans bigots won’t go away. But they are on the losing side. Over the weekend in London and Dublin, more trans people marched together than ever before. Politicians including Jeremy Corbyn and Nicola Sturgeon took a firm stand against the abuse. And more closeted trans people got to see that they weren’t weird, that they weren’t something to be ashamed of, that they weren’t alone.

    Simply having access to information, to images of trans people as perfectly normal, is very recent.

    As one trans woman put it, echoing something I experienced for many years from the 1990s onwards:

    [Pride] jogs memories of long, shame-filled nights online, feverishly researching trans lives to try and understand confusing aspects of your own behaviour. And all the info you find is from [bigots and quacks] because it’s two thousand and fucking one, and what you read doesn’t quite match your own experience so you just… move on. Because what upstanding Christian child wants to lump themselves in with a bunch of degenerate perverts?

    …[you] try to forget it ever existed because nobody has been hurt, not yet, nobody has to know. Especially not yourself.

    Better to just forget. That’s the smart decision.

    This is why Pride matters. @Scattermoon on Twitter:

    How far we’ve come from a few isolated trans kids posting in online communities about our traumatic experiences, to large groups of trans kids marching in trans flags, together.

    Buzzfeed’s Patrick Strudwick:

    We spend our lives amid endless messages – from the subtle to the violent – that we are bad, wrong, evil, unworthy, unhealthy, inhuman, immoral – and we carry on. More than that: we retain dignity, we succeed, contribute, love. We rise.

     

  • The scaremongering needs to stop

    It’s not a great day for news about trans people. In Antwerp, a teenage trans woman was gang raped by three men on her very first day presenting female. Scotland’s first minister, Nicola Sturgeon, no doubt upset some of her transphobic members by tweeting about it:

    Important to remember that – far from being responsible for the actions of abusive men – trans women, just like all women, can be and often are the victims of male violence. https://twitter.com/britlgbtawards/status/1146742980272893956

    Stories like this don’t stop the scaremongering about trans women, which often makes malicious allegations about trans-inclusive individuals and organisations. When they’re not shouting at women on Twitter, the anti-trans group calling themselves Women Make Glasgow are demanding Stonewall be banned from schools for “lobbying school children in an environment where no-one is allowed to do this.”

    Stonewall’s Colin MacFarlane:

    Yet again facts don’t seem to matter. We don’t ‘lobby’ school children we train teachers & educational professionals on how to create inclusive learning environments for ALL young folk.

    Why is that work with teachers so vital?
    Nearly half of LGBT young people and 71% of trans young people are bullied simply for being who they are.
    Nearly one in twenty young LGBT people have received death threats
    41 % of young people hear nothing about LGBT people in schools

    Teachers tell us that they want to get it right for their LGBT pupils and that’s why they come to us for help.

    You can read our full School Report here. 🚨some of the stats here may be triggering. 🚨

    https://www.stonewallscotland.org.uk/system/files/school_report_scotland_2017.pdf

    Here’s a typically measured, intelligent response – the first one in the thread.

    @Cmacf76 It’s ok if you want to get into kids’ pants? Eh? What sicko world have we created for today’s children?

    Incidentally, other responses show another problem beyond basic bigotry: misinformation recycled as fact. One commenter asks about kids being expelled for saying there are only two genders; the story they’re alluding to has nothing to do with Stonewall and the school concerned, in Scotland, excluded the teenager for breaking its no-exceptions rule prohibiting pupils from filming teachers in classrooms.

    It’s not just LGBT+ charities. Any organisation that says it isn’t opposed to trans inclusion becomes targeted. Recent examples have included charities such as Scottish Rape Crisis and Scottish Women’s Aid.

    Here’s Brian Dempsey, a lecturer at the University of Dundee’s law school, writing in response to a piece in Scottish Legal News.

    The feminist women’s groups who have most experience of fighting for and delivering women-only safe spaces, including Scottish Rape Crisis, Scottish Women’s Aid, Engender, Zero Tolerance all have experience of operating services on a self-declaration basis and they strongly support reform.

    Your report points out that the majority of funding for these and other effective, well-established feminist organisations comes from the Scottish government. The implication that dedicated feminists are actively undermining women’s safety for the sake of government money is both unfounded and distasteful.

    The claims come from the same place as the leaflets being put through Glasgow doors claiming 82% opposition to proposed gender recognition reform. As The Ferret points out, that claim is false.

    The latest survey of attitudes in fact shows majority support across the UK, as PinkNews reports:

    Despite public protests, 59 percent of the UK population – including 47 percent of Conservative voters – back teaching LGBT-inclusive relationships education in schools.

    56 percent of people are also in favour of trans people being able to self-identify their gender, which comes as the government is expected to respond to its consultation on potential reform of the Gender Recognition Act (GRA) in the coming weeks.

    Human rights shouldn’t be subject to popular opinion: in living memory there was a 3/4 majority against civil rights for people of colour, a 3/4 majority against civil rights for gay people and so on.But it demonstrates that despite the best efforts of the bigots and their friends in the media, most of the public is on the right side of history.