One of the reasons I write so much here is because I wish someone had written for me when I didn’t know who I was. Today I learned the phrase “possibility model”: it’s somebody whose visibility tells you that there are other people like you, that being like you is perfectly normal.
For me, the real power of trans visibility lies in the potential we hold to build community, and to act as possibility models. To know we have value to one another. To know we have the potential to create and inspire: to write, to draw, to paint, to act, to speak, to love, to be loved, to simply be.
…I will never forget the overwhelming awkwardness of trying to speak yourself into existence when you simply donâ€™t have the language available to you, when you donâ€™t see anyone like you in the world to show that your future is possible. In spite of everything, the world has changed for the better for trans people over the last two decades. Itâ€™s no wonder that more of us are coming out than ever, at earlier ages too.
Letâ€™s carry on changing the world together.